Cri du Chat Awareness week 2018 (Day 6)

Celebrating my daughter the artist!

I remember very clearly the day Emily was diagnosed.

The grim diagnosis, the speech we received. Your daughter will never walk, never talk, she will be in a wheelchair, fed by tube in her own world. She will not recognize you, she will not understand you and show emotions.

Let that sink in for a moment. I was 24 years old and the genetic counselors looked at me like my life was over.

This was 1999, the majority of the information available said the same thing, I also found some information saying that my daughter’s life expectancy was shorter due to various other possible health complications.

We were devastated but Emily was already 15 months old and I knew she knew us.

I held on to that knowledge with all I had and believed she had a potential. We were ready to do everything possible to give her, her best life.

I was ready for the worst case scenario but had a feeling it wouldn’t be quite like that.

So today, I am celebrating, Emily, the artist!

She was never afraid to get dirty!

She paints!

on canvas and on glass!she is also quite interested in pottery!

Not just the painting of pottery, she is making some cool items too!

My girl is an artist!

Emily has turned her passion for art into 2 incredible opportunities.

Once a week, she goes to a pottery studio in town where she cleans and organizes their equipment in exchange for studio time and the owners help in developing her skills.

She met the owners during her school coop last year and they were happy to expand on the relationship. Emily is dropped there by her support worker and I pick her up at the end of her shift.

Emily also volunteers at a local Boys and Girls club, once a week. She is responsible for a craft activity for kids around the age of 6. She now has 7 regular students. Emily’s support worker stays with her for this and helps her pick the craft and organize the activity.

I am very proud of her and we will continue to seek opportunities like this for her!

When she paints or does pottery, her focus is phenomenal!

Her fine motor skills continue to improve as she continues to work on them…

And she’s still not worried about getting dirty!

This is only a fragment of Emily’s story and I’m so glad to be a part of it!

If you haven’t had a chance yet, please go see her Facebook page, if you like it, please hit that like button and share it with your contacts, friends and family.

Emily’s Hopes and Dreams

Find more about about Cri du Chat syndrome at 5p- Society

Emily has a her own page in the family stories , you can find it here: Emily

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You can also find me on Twitter at @plebrass

Look who’s sitting in her car again!


This time, I’m in front of one of the local Boys and Girls club, it’s after dinner time, it’s cold and I didn’t bring my book.

Emily is in there with the lady from Community Living and her intern.

If it goes well tonight, this could be another recurring volunteer gig for my girl so I’m sitting here for what could be 3 hours…

Here’s to hoping she can have support worker hours approved to help with this as I can’t imagine I would enjoy volunteering here to help her.

How I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how the kids are reacting to her, if they are nice to her, if she fits in.

I hate not being with her and provide her a buffer just in case but I know I have to give her room to learn and grow…

This is a crazy roller coaster ride my friends and here I thought it would get easier once she would be an adult.