Interview with Brooke, let’s meet Kali and Kera!

Today we chat with Brooke!

Hello Brooke, can you tell me about your family?

We are a family of 5, my husband Shane, Kali, Kera and Kasi!  Kali and Kera are 6 year old twins, Kasi is 1 1/2 years old!  We live in Avis, PA!  I’m a stay at home mom!  

  

Can you tell me about your daughters who have cri du chat syndrome?

Kali and Kera both have cri du chat syndrome!  We found out Kera has 5p- when she was 7 months old and we found out Kali had 5p- when she was 10 months old!  Kera is our adventurous one, she crawls, walks with a walker and recently started walking with one hand held!  She is nonverbal and not potty trained yet!  Kali is more content being left alone playing with toys that play music and light up!  She doesn’t crawl or walk!  She had corrective surgery on her foot in Feb 2015 and we are using an up and go to try and get her walking!  Kali doesn’t do anything on anyone’s terms but her own, some days we can get her to walk in the up and go like she’s been doing it for years and some days she acts like she has no clue what she is supposed to do in it!

Tell me about doctor appointments, therapies and/or school?

Our doctors appointments for the most part have dwindled off!  Kera still sees her neurodevelopment doctor every 6 months because she is on risperidone, Kali sees him every 2 years!  They both see there PCP every 6 months still!  Every other doctor, orthopedics and cleft clinic(Kera), we see once a year!  Their ENT dismissed us now that Kera doesn’t have ear infections anymore and Kali got her tonsils and adenoids out!  We drive 2 hours for orthopedics and cleft clinic, 1 hour for our neurodevelopment  doctor, I did research and found the best doctors closest to us for the girls!  They get PT, OT and Speech in school and then I take them to outpatient PT and OT once a week and I take them to Penn State University once a week for speech also!  They absolutely LOVE school, they love being in their mainstream classrooms with all of their friends and they love being in their multidisabilities classroom too because they get to be on the floor and do what they want for a little bit!

Cab you tell me a success story?

We FINALLY got Kera to walk with one hand held, after years of trying!  We are getting Kali there, like I mentioned above, she is our stubborn one and only does stuff on her terms and nobody else’s!

Is there anything else you want the world to know?

Our kids understand more than people think they do!  Just because they are nonverbal doesn’t mean they don’t know what you are saying to them!  If we are talking to them and tell them something funny they will laugh before we do!  

Kali   
Kera

 

Thank you Brooke. Your girls sound lovely, I hope to have a chance to meet your family one day!

Clearwater Marine Aquarium

I am worried my words can’t do justice to the day we spent at the Clearwater Marine Aquarium.

After 2 years and 8 months working on this, on Monday May 5th, I woke-up and took this picture.  My girl slept like a rock the night before.  I thought the excitement would keep her awake but I guess the flight and shopping tired her.

I got us all dress in matching outfits. That’s a sight you will not see that often!


We rented a car and started driving from Orlando to Clearwater.

We saw this!


Eventually, this!

And finally these!

    

It was a gorgeous day in Clearwater.

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We were VIP’s πŸ™‚

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This is Emily looking at Winter.   She had tears in her eyes.

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Emily relates to Winter in a way that none of us can see or feel.

None of us!

Which is why I’m worried my words can’t express the magic we witnessed that day.

Since the very first movie preview…

Emily wanted to know more about Winter the dolphin that never gave up.

Winter who, against all odds, survived and now thrives.

Winter, the dolphin who inspires thousands to move forward.

We took a behind the scene tour… We learned about the history of the place, we saw the turtle intensive care unit, Emily asked questions and contributed to the tour.

When Emily heard Winter whistled, it was as if the whole world made sense.  She was so happy.  She had stars in her eyes.

I probably have a couple of hundreds of pictures of our day.  Picking the ones included in this post was challenging.

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Here is Emily getting ready to meet Hope (Winter’s buddy) and finally, Emily listening to Mallory and playing with Hope.

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I cried while taking these pictures.

I can try to explain why I cried…

When Emily was diagnosed with cri du chat syndrome, we were told she would do nothing.

Never walk, talk, not recognized us, not show or even comprehend emotions.

When I saw her listen to Mallory and reach out to Hope I was slightly overwhelmed.

New parents assume their kids will do things and experience life.

After Emily’s diagnosis, all of our hopes and dreams were crushed.

All those new experiences, small or big, they are all big wins for us!

So, I cried.

Just a couple of tears really.

One tear for my baby girl who struggled with everything from drinking, to gaining weight, to sleeping…

One tear for my 24 year old self who cried so much.

One tear for all the doctor and therapy appointments who took over our lives.

One tear for our crushed dreams who are slowly coming true.

Thank you Becca for your help in making this dream come true.

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We saw Winter getting her tail put on.

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Emily received the cutest USB key ever made.

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Our visit continued at the museum.

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And concluded with a Sea Life Safari tour.

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Thank you Sunshine Foundation of Canada and Thank you Clearwater Marine Aquarium

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